Generated by All in One SEO Pro v4.9.10, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Caroline Maguire, M.Ed. | Social Skills For Kids & Adults Caroline Maguire helps kids and adults with social emotional learning and social skills training. Parent coaching, tools and skills for real, sustainable growth. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Social Withdrawal Concerns](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-withdrawal-concerns/) - Socially withdrawing and self-isolating - [Self-Awareness in Social Emotional Learning (SEL)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/self-awareness-in-social-emotional-learning-sel/) - Self-awareness is the ability to understand our emotions, values, goals, or strengths and it is a core component of Social Emotional Learning (SEL) - [Self-Management Skills Required this Holiday](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/self-management-skills-required-this-holiday/) - Whichever side you are on in this election, chances are self-management skills will be required this Holiday season. - [Empathy is Compassion](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/empathy-is-compassion/) - Empathy is showing compassion, understanding another person’s experience, and walking in someone else’s shoes. - [5 Ways to Use Social Emotional Learning to Bring Back Joy](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-ways-to-use-social-emotional-learning/) - 5 Ways to Use Social Emotional Learning to Bring Back Joy - Social emotional concerns are at an all time high - [Build Social Emotional Skills Over the Holiday](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-social-emotional-skills-holiday/) - The holidays are a perfect time to practice social emotional skills. Help your child build valuable social emotional learning skills. - [How To Read the Room So You're More Confident Around Your Co-workers](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-to-read-the-room-so-youre-more-confident-around-your-co-workers/) - Reading the room is an important social skill at home, in groups, in school, in organizations and in the workplace. - [Learning How to Become a Social Spy So You Can Understand & Make Friends with Anyone](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/becoming-a-social-spy-how-to-understand-anyone/) - Social Spy is for kids and adults who want to make friends more easily and have less stress in social situations. It's a fun and easy. - [I'm So Embarrassed About Always Saying The Wrong Thing At The Wrong Time](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/im-so-embarrassed-about-always-saying-the-wrong-thing-at-the-wrong-time/) - Saying the wrong thing at the wrong time is a painful cycle that leads to deep social embarrassment and pain. Here's how to stop it. - [Does Making New Friends Make You Anxious? Here’s How To Make Small Talk So It’s A Little Easier For You (Or Your Child)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-to-make-small-talk/) - Small talk is a life skill for dealing with social settings, making new friends, meeting colleagues and more. Here's how to do it gracefully. - [Why So Many Women With ADHD Feel Successful At Work But Lost When It Comes To Making Friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/women-with-adhd-make-friends/) - It's often easier for many women to be super successful at work, than it is to make friends. Read how ADHD affects women and friendship and ways to help. - [Post-Event Processing: Why Your Brain Replays Social Moments (and What to Actually Do About It)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/post-event-processing/) - Post-event processing happens for many people with ADHD and is when your brain replays experiences over and over. Here's why it happens and how to fix it. - [Anxious Overcorrection & ADHD: Why You Feel the Urge To “Fix It” Immediately](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/anxious-overcorrection-adhd/) - Anxious overcorrection is the impulse to fix or adjust your behavior quickly. For people with ADHD, it's not only common but can cause increased stress. - [12 Tips to Manage Your Emotions & Communicate Better This Holiday Season](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/manage-your-emotions-this-holiday-season/) - Managing your emotions can feel particularly important at the holidays when you are with loved ones. Read my top 12 tips for neurodivergent adults. - [Beyond Ghosting: ADHD, Soft Fades & The Pain Of Ambiguous Social Cues](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/ghosting-adhd-soft-fades-social-cues/) - As a coach and a person with ADHD, I know that soft fades and ambiguous social cues are particularly difficult when trying to make friends. These tips help. - [Mira Weinfeld - Made2Focus Performance, LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/mira-weinfeld-made2focus-performance-llc/) - Online directory of Play Better Coaches have been trained in Caroline Maguire's Play Better methodology and her Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching. - [Natalia van Rikxoort, MSW, ACC - Lotus Life Coaching Services](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/natalia-van-rikxoort-msw-acc-lotus-life-coaching-services/) - Online directory of Play Better Coaches have been trained in Caroline Maguire's Play Better methodology and her Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching. - [How Tweens Can Trigger Mom’s ADHD Symptoms — and How to Keep Your Cool](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-23-how-tweens-can-trigger-moms-adhd-symptoms-and-how-to-keep-your-cool/) - How many times have you been out to a restaurant for a family dinner when your tween wouldn’t put down the phone? Texting, playing games, checking to see who’s posted on Instagram — it never ends. Or maybe you’re at home and have cleaned the kitchen. You asked your child a couple of times to take - [Heidi Smith - Anchored Attention LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/heidi-smith-anchored-attention-llc/) - Online directory of Play Better Coaches have been trained in Caroline Maguire's Play Better methodology and her Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching. - [Dana Maher - Dana Maher Coaching LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/dana-maher-dana-maher-coaching-llc/) - Online directory of Play Better Coaches have been trained in Caroline Maguire's Play Better methodology and her Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching. - [The Giant Paddington Bear](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-30-the-giant-paddington-bear/) - My first real coaching experience was at age 13 with my cousin Aiden (not his real name). I was his nanny that summer. Aiden was 5 years old. His parents taught at a prestigious boarding school every day during the summer, and I was tasked with being his guardian. Despite my age, I felt like - [Your Child Isn’t Defiant — His Skills Are Lagging](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-5-31-your-child-isnt-defiant-his-skills-are-lagging/) - You wouldn’t expect a child to hit a baseball before learning how to swing the bat. Many children who struggle with behavioral challenges ... - [What if my child won’t even discuss getting help for social skills?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/what-if-my-child-wont-even-discuss-getting-help-for-social-skills/) - When children are resistant it often means that the activity is hard for her. To help your child be more comfortable, you will likely have many conversations with her. We often talk about “paving the way” for a conversation that we anticipate will be sensitive or difficult. - [Madame Ruggles](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-30-madame-ruggles/) - Kids will have so many different teachers throughout their young academic years – all with different teaching styles, different ways they relate to each child, some in their first years of teaching, some growing close to retirement, some good, and some bad. But we’ve all heard the stories about the one teacher that made a difference, and they may not have even known it. - [My Child is Avoiding Everything This Year](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/my-daughter-is-avoiding-everything-this-year/) - My child seems sad and missing events on purpose. I think this has to do with friends. But when I ask her she says she is fine. What do I do? - [Birthday Parties, the Cafeteria, and Other Social Obstacles](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/birthday-parties-the-cafeteria-and-other-social-obstacles/) - Help kids build the confidence to speak up by rehearsing possible scenarios, role-playing, and learning how to ask open-ended questions. - [My teenage son disappears into the basement and never engages with us.](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/my-teenage-son-disappears-into-the-basement-and-never-engages-with-us/) - Don't refuse virtual friends. Find an opportunity to talk about video games and virtual friends, ask questions and listen. - [A Social Life Castle with Thick Walls](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-30-a-castle-with-walls-too-thick-to-penetrate/) - A child needs help in building the social skills to navigate social situations, make friends and join in activities. - [My child is shy and refuses to play with new kids.](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/my-child-is-shy-and-refuses-to-play-with-new-kids/) - Try the comfort zone concept with a child is struggling to keep an open mind, has trouble with change or shows less buy-in than you wish. - [The White Noise Experience: An Answer to Getting Work Done](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/white-noise-experience-an-answer-to-getting-work-done/) - The white noise experience occurs when the ADHD brain increases focus and productivity by using background noise. - [ADHD, Dyslexia and The Little Red Table](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/adhd-dyslexia-and-the-little-red-table/) - Many children with ADHD and dyslexia face reading challenges, focusing difficulties, failure to hear instructions and retain information. - [As Parents Are We Doing Enough?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/are-parent-doing-enough/) - Talk to your kids about the proper way to treat people, and furthermore, model that behavior. - [We May Have Eliminated “Last Picked” But Not “Picked On”](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/we-may-have-eliminated-last-picked-but-not-picked-on/) - Help your child build positive social skills behaviors so he can identify his emotions, actions and how others perceive him. - [Everyone is Working on Something When A Child Has Challenging Behavior](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/everyone-is-working-on-something/) - Challenging behaviors lead to a ton of "things to do" and everyone is working on something. Here's how to keep it together. - [How to Motivate Kids Academically with WIFM (What’s in it for Me?)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-to-motivate-kids-academically-with-wifm-whats-in-it-for-them/) - Try to figure out what motivates your child. Kids are motivated; they just aren’t motivated by what parents want them to be motivated by. - [There is Always a Label](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/there-is-always-a-label/) - Parents may fear an ADHD diagnosis because they do not want their child labeled. Changing our mindsets will help the child better manage ADHD. - [Raising the Consistently Inconsistent Kid](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/raising-the-consistently-inconsistent-kid/) - Inconsistent kids need help with building coping skills, seeing things from another’s perspective, and developing problem-solving strategies. - [Managing Your Reaction To Your Kids as a Parent](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-30-managing-my-reactions-as-a-parent/) - Does parenting a child with ADHD stress you out? It does for me, at times. While I know it’s hard to manage your anger when things feel like they’re spinning out of control, the following tips will help you as a parent manage your anger and move toward a better outcome for both you and - [How Hitting The Pause Button Saved The Day](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/2018-8-30-pause-saves-the-day/) - The pause button technique is one ADHD parents want in their back pocket at all times. Here's how it helped our family. - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 2](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-2/) - My Facebook Live event was at my home office on Monday, January 7, 2019. I’ve posted the entire video here for you to view. You can also go and view it on my Facebook page. - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 3](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-3/) - We rescheduled our Facebook Live #AskCoachCaroline Event for Monday, March 11th, 2019. This month our theme was how do you help your child deal with loneliness when they feel left out and say, "I have no friends"? - [Should I Ban My Teen From Seeing “Bad” Friends?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/should-i-ban-my-teen-from-seeing-bad-friends/) - Banning and forbidding friends won’t work. Having a focused, collaborative conversation about your teen’s thoughts on friendship will. - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 4](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-4/) - Facebook Live #AskCoachCaroline Event hosted on Monday, April 1st, 2019. This month’s theme is when should I intervene with my child’s friendships? (Example: play dates, reading text messages, etc.) - [Cydney Hubbard - Integrative Coaching for Families, LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/cydney-hubbard-integrative-coaching-for-families-llc/) - Clients: children | teens | young adults | adultsPhoenix, AZ - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 5](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-5/) - Facebook Live #AskCoachCaroline Event hosted on Tuesday, May 7th, 2019. This month’s theme was how do you help your child manage their emotions rather than their emotions managing them? - [Mandy Hasslen-Gartner - ADHD Kid Coach LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/mandy-hasslen-gartner-adhd-kid-coach-llc/) - Clients: children | teens Minneapolis, MN - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 6](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-6/) - Facebook Live #AskCoachCaroline Event hosted on Monday, June 3rd, 2019. This month’s theme was what do when your kid is a bossy rule follower or rule police? - [Andrea Elrom - creADDive Solutions](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/andrea-elrom-creaddive-solutions/) - Clients: children | teens | young adults | adultsNew York, NY - [Facebook Live Q&A Video 7](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/facebook-live-qa-video-7/) - Facebook Live #AskCoachCaroline Event hosted on Monday, July 8th, 2019. This month’s theme was how do you talk about social skill problems with your child? - [How Can I Get Through To My Kid That He Has To Stop Arguing With His Teachers](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-can-i-get-through-to-my-kid-that-he-has-to-stop-arguing-with-his-teachers-so-much/) - The open-ended questions walk a child through interpreting other people’s point of view and to examine their actions and behaviors. - [Do I Need to Teach My Kid How to Make A Friend? I Never Needed That Kind of Support, Why Does He?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/do-i-need-to-teach-my-kid-how-to-make-a-friend-i-never-needed-that-kind-of-support-why-does-he/) - Continuing to have an open, collaborative conversation is essential to helping your child learn to make and keep friends. - [Patty Blinderman - Positive Focus, LLC](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/patty-blinderman-positive-focus-llc/) - Patty Blinderman, social skills coach, is trained in Play Better methodology, attended Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching and is certified by ICF. - [Homeschooling During COVID-19](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/homeschooling-during-covid-19/) - Working from home for the first time and now with this heightened sense of anxiety, we are expected to teach our children? - [5 Ways To Maintain Your Child's Social Skills During COVID19](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-ways-to-maintain-your-childs-social-skills-during-covid19/) - Social skills are life skills, and connection to others is essential to mental and physical health. Help your child feel connected. - [Screen Time & COVID-19: How to Support Teens with ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/screen-time-covid-19-how-to-support-teens-with-adhd/) - How to work with teens about screen time limits and appropriate hours for waking and sleeping to help your teen practice self-regulation. - [When Your Tween Acts Up During Lockdown](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/when-your-tween-acts-up-during-lockdown/) - Experts’ suggestions on how to handle conflicts, screen time, chores and homework with tweens and teens during lockdown. - [10 Ways to Teach Your Child Social Skills in Daily Life](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/10-ways-to-teach-your-child-social-skills-in-daily-life/) - Social skills are important for making friends. Learn how to teach your child social skills for social situation. - [Stress tips for Parenting during COVID](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-strategies-to-manage-parental-burnout/) - Parenting children with ADHD can be exhausting. Stress tips for Parenting during COVID. You are are physically and emotionally exhausted! - [Virtual Playdates: Can They Really Help Build Social Skills?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/virtual-playdates-can-they-really-help-build-social-skills/) - Kids can learn that even though they have to distance themselves right now, they can build ties to their friends with virtual playdates. - [How to Work With a Teen Who Won't Abide by COVID Rules](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-to-work-with-a-teen-who-wont-abide-by-covid-rules/) - Your teen has had enough of the social distancing and won't abide by your family's COVID house rules. What can you do? - [Why Will No One Play with Me? made it to the Best ADHD Books of All Time](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/best-adhd-books-of-all-time/) - Why Will No One Play with Me?: The Play Better Plan to Help Kids Make Friends", made it to BookAuthority's Best ADHD Books of All Time - [3 Tips to Building Empathy During a Social Crisis](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/3-tips-to-building-empathy-during-a-social-crisis/) - Teaching empathy involves a community to promote empathy and kindness and also coaching children on what empathetic behavior looks like. - [What Will the Fall Be Like?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/what-will-the-fall-be-like/) - As a social skills coach, I suggest that parents review the social and emotional struggles that were most prevalent last year. - [Linda King - Play Better Coach - The Joy of Getting Things Done](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/linda-king-play-better-coach/) - Linda King, social skills coach, is trained in my Play Better methodology, attended my Fundamentals of ADHD Coaching and is certified by ICF. - [Top 10 Social Etiquette Faux-Pas During a Pandemic](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/top-10-social-etiquette-faux-pas-during-a-pandemic/) - As a social skills coach, I see all types of behavior as we adjust to this mask-wearing, distancing new normal. - [15 Phrases to Spark a Conversation About Social Dilemmas](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/help-your-child-engage-socially/) - For most parents, the dread of helping your kid navigate social dilemmas is stressful. Here's how to help them make friends and keep them. - [Rejection Sensitivity & ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/rejection-sensitivity-adhd/) - When you experience Rejection Sensitivity, you have a heightened reaction to a real, perceived or anticipated event, person or situation. - [Connection is a Verb](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/connection-is-a-verb/) - How do you make friends? Connection is a verb and requires action. Reach out today to co-workers, neighbors, etc. - [Collaborating Virtually at Work and School](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-emotional-support-in-a-virtual-world/) - Working or learning virtually can be a challenge when reading social cues and managing communication. Learn how to collaborate remotely. - [Keep the Social in Social Distancing](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/keep-the-social-in-social-distancing/) - Time to work on strategies to build your (or your child’s) social and emotional skills for when we return to “normal” in-person interactions. - [When Someone Isn’t Nice, Should You Ignore It?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/when-someone-isnt-nice-should-you-ignore-it/) - Learn how to recover and promote self talk when someone is mean and says cruel words. - [The Silver Lining: Unexpected Kindness and Empathy](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/the-silver-lining-empathy-and-kindness/) - We are experiencing unexpected kindness and empathy - [Encourage Social Skills Development](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/encourage-social-skills-development/) - Social Skills development does not take place quickly. Encourage social and emotional skills development with patience and advice. - [Sonal Singh](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/sonal-singh/) - Sonal Singh Client Specialties children | teens Coaching Options Offered in person | over the phone | video calls Certifications and Designations ICF Certified | FAM Coach Sonal Singh, ACC is an ICF certified Coach for ADHD and Family Coaching. She is India’s first certified ADHD Coach, and works with clients across the world via - [Social Awareness and Rejection Sensitivity](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-awareness-and-rejection-sensitivity/) - Rejection sensitivity tends to make people opt out or avoid events or interactions because they are so accustomed to, and therefore dread, real or perceived rejection. - [Children With ADHD: Does It Ever Get Better?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/children-with-adhd/) - Children with adhd can have symptoms of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity that can cause many problems if left untreated. - [5 Ways Kids & Teens Can Take Back Joy During COVID-19](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-ways-kids-teens-can-take-back-joy-during-covid-19/) - Here are things you can do as a parent to create joy and help your child or teen stay centered as we enter another phase of COVID-19 - [Social Emotional Needs of Children](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-emotional-needs-of-children/) - Parents need to stay in tune of their child's specific social emotional needs and help shape a strong framework for social-emotional health. - [Talking to Your Children about the Coronavirus](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/talking-to-your-children-about-the-coronavirus/) - Talk about the Pandemic with your child - [What is Social Emotional Learning (SEL) and Why is it so Important During COVID?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/why-is-social-emotional-learning-important-during-covid/) - What is Social Emotional Learning (SEL) and Why is it so Important to Children, Teens, Educators and Families During COVID? - [How Can I Get My Kid To Listen & Do What He's Told Without A Constant Battle Of Wills?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/get-my-kid-to-listen/) - Many parents feel that their child is purposely not listening to them or that they are getting a payoff for being stubborn or selfish. - [What to Do When Your Teen Can't Seem to Make Friends You Approve Of](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/teen-cant-make-friends-you-approve-of/) - Banning your teen's friends will not work, rather collaborate to better understand what are good qualities are and how to be a good friend. - [Why Does My Kid Think He Knows Better Than The Adult?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/why-does-my-kid-always-think-he-knows-better-than-the-adult-in-the-room/) - Children who knows better, can’t stop arguing and dominate conversations can learn to interpret and consider the feelings of others - [How To Help Your Kid When They Regularly Misread Social Signals With Friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/help-your-kid-with-social-signals/) - When we do not read or interpret nonverbal information, we tend to struggle understanding unwritten social signals. - [10 Things To Calm YOU Down When Raising Kids With Executive Functioning Challenges](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/things-to-calm-you-down/) - Identify things to calm you downso you can respond to your child or teenager in a way that makes you an effective parent. - [How Adept Are You at Reading the Room?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/reading-the-room/) - Reading the room is important - learn how to scan the space and environment for verbal and nonverbal energy, words or dynamics. - [5 Reasons Why We're All Hyper-Sensitive Now (And How You Can Take Your Sanity Back)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/5-reasons-why-were-all-hyper-sensitive-now-and-how-you-can-take-your-sanity-back/) - How you can be sensitive to your own mental health during the COVID-19 crisis and the best self-care steps now. - [How To Help Shy Children Step Outside Comfort Zone](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/how-to-help-shy-children-make-friends/) - What does it mean to step outside our comfort zone? Push yourself in unfamiliar places, to do things that you wouldn't normally do. - [Essential Guide to Transitioning to Social Interactions - Post COVID](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/the-essential-guide-to-transitioning-back-to-social-interactions-post-covid/) - As we transition back to ‘normal’ social interactions, it is time to refresh the social skills we have been learning since childhood. - [You're Not a Bad Parent](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/youre-not-a-bad-parent/) - What we are asked to handle now is not only so much more than our parents had to handle, it is more than we had to handle just one year ago! - [Introducing “How To SEL” - Everyday Child and Family Social Emotional Coaching](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/introducing-how-to-sel-everyday-child-and-family-social-emotional-coaching/) - How To SEL offers SEL support to both children and adults impacted by the pandemic and increased racial inequity. - [7 Ways to Help Your Kid's Rusty Social Skills](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/7-ways-to-help-your-kids-rusty-social-skills-now-that-the-pandemic-is-winding-down/) - Rusty social skills can happen to anyone when they get out of the habit of engaging with strangers socially. Here's what you can do. - [Why We Need Social Emotional Learning Now More Than Ever](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/why-we-need-social-emotional-learning-now-more-than-ever/) - If anything has been learned from the pandemic it is that schools and homes need to prioritize social emotional learning. - [The 10 Must-Haves for Social Success](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/the-10-must-haves-for-social-success-according-to-an-expert/) - If you struggle in social situations, think about the social skills you have, and which ones you can work on, in order to catch up. - [Is Your Kid A Hot Mess? 10 Ways to Help Keep Their Emotions In Check So You Get A Little Peace](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/is-your-kid-a-hot-mess-10-ways-to-help-keep-their-emotions-in-check-so-you-get-a-little-peace/) - 10 Strategies to Keep Kids’ Emotions in Check. Help Keep kids Emotions in check by using social skills they have not used during the pandemic. - [Want Less Stress with Your Socially Challenged Teen? Learn To See the Little Wins](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/want-less-stress-with-your-socially-challenged-teen-learn-to-see-the-little-wins/) - Help your socially chanllenged teen make chit chat, reach out, make eye contact, and try new things to help him develop socially. - [My Child is Hiding From Friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/my-child-is-hiding-from-friends/) - Not everyone is excited to return to "normal". Some kids may be avoiding friends, activities and social pressures - [Why Is My Child So Rude All The Time?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/why-is-my-kid-so-rude-all-the-time/) - "Why is my child so rude all the time? Some children can’t read the social nuances of body language, facial expressions, mood, or tone. - [The One Teacher That Made a Difference](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/the-one-teacher-that-made-a-difference/) - Kids will have so many different teachers throughout their young academic years — all with different teaching styles and different ways they relate to each child. Some will be in their first years of teaching, while others approach retirement. Some will be great, some good, and some bad. But it's that ONE teacher we will - [How to Improve Social Skills in a Teen Who is Gifted or has Learning Differences](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/improve-social-skills-in-a-child-with-learning-differences/) - How to improve social skills in a child who is gifted or has learning differences to make quality, valuable friends. - [Social Skills Win the Interview](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-skills-win-the-interview/) - Your skills, responsibilities, expertise and knowledge are important, however, social skills can win the interview. - [Social Emotional Challenges of Gifted / Learning Differences Children and Adults](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/social-emotional-challenges-of-gifted-ld-children-and-adults/) - People who are twice exceptional (possess characteristics of both giftedness and LD) face added social emotional challenges - [My Child is Lonely, What Should I Do?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/my-child-is-lonely-what-should-i-do/) - How can you help a child or teen who is lonely and you feel they're social skills aren't where they should be. - [Olympics Themed Social Emotional Learning Activities](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/olympics-social-emotional-learning-activities/) - The Olympics is a great time to work on social emotional learning activities - as well as gross motor skills, this summer. - [Back to School Social Emotional Support](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/back-to-school-social-emotional-support/) - This year in particular, help your child with social-emotional support. 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The good news is that, like any other skill, social-emotional skills can be taught and improved.” Have you watched your child with ADHD interact with peers and wondered why they can’t drop the joke after it stopped making - [Birthday Parties, the Cafeteria, and Other Social Obstacles](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/birthday-parties-the-cafeteria-and-other-social-obstacles/) - You don’t need to helicopter to help your middle-schooler make friends. In fact, too much interference can do more harm than good. Follow these strategies to boost your tween’s confidence. You learned that your middle-schooler is skipping lunch to avoid the cafeteria. Should you address it head-on, giving her advice that she probably won’t listen - [Bad Texter? Worse Caller? 6 Ways to Rekindle Cold Friendships](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/bad-texter-worse-caller-6-ways-to-rekindle-cold-friendships/) - “You may think that your friend wants nothing to do with you. 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As much as we know - [Coaching your child on social cues](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/coaching-your-child-on-social-cues/) - Question: My daughter has ADHD and feels left out at school. She has trouble picking up on social cues, and I can see the toll it takes on her self-esteem. How can I support her so she can improve her social skills and build stronger friendships?—parent of a third-grade student ADHD Information Specialist: I’m sure it is - [Coaching Your Child to Play Better](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/coaching-your-chuld-to-play-better/) - Effective coaching is a way of being with and communicating with your child. HE CORE PRINCIPLES of effective parent coaching for social skills are based on proven strategies and techniques that support positive behavioral change. You don’t have to be some superparent with all the answers. You don’t have to fix your child or fix - [Coping with Sensory Overload](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/coping-with-sensory-overload/) - When we are flooded with sensory information, lights feel brighter, sounds are louder, and crowds seem to close in on us. Sensory bombardment and overwhelm can make situations draining and anxiety-provoking. To reduce the effects of overstimulation, we may try to cope by going quiet or avoiding eye contact. For many adults and children with - [Holiday Conversations: Ten Tips to Manage Your Emotions and Communicate Better](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/holiday-conversations-ten-tips-to-manage-your-emotions-and-communicate-better/) - As we approach the holiday season, everyone has a list of expectations about how it will go. “Last year was a disaster when Uncle Gil went on and on about the government.” “We’d better ask Aunt Fran not to share too much about her work. Everyone was embarrassed about how much she overshared.” “Make sure - [How to Recover After a Social Faux Pas](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-recover-after-a-social-faux-pas/) - Social faux pas happen when you have ADHD. You may miss social cues about how someone feels or read their face incorrectly and miss their intention when they speak. That momentary misstep may leave you feeling like you have fallen off the edge of the earth, causing you to shut down, apologize too much, or - [How to Say the Right Thing at the Right Time](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-say-the-right-thing-at-the-right-time/) - Often people with ADHD have a history of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Maybe we make a cringe-worthy comment we wish we could immediately take back. Other times we don’t know what to say and we just fumble along. Or we monologue and stumble into inappropriate comments. This history makes us afraid to - [How to Shift Black-and-White Thinking](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-shift-black-and-white-thinking/) - "They let me down, so I am just done with them,” a client tells me about a situation. As I listen to their story, what’s missing from this one statement is that the situation being described is complicated. What’s not being related about the situation are the layers of miscommunication and different perspectives and gray - [I Can't Stop Thinking About It](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-it/) - Many people with ADHD express frustration with the frequency and depth of negative and intrusive thoughts. These thoughts can be painful, and they may grow and grow until they affect daily life. Dwelling on such thoughts increases anxiety, depression, and restlessness—often causing you to make poor choices, incorrectly read the room, misinterpret social cues, and become - [I Don’t Speak to You That Way. Please Show Me Some Respect!](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/i-dont-speak-to-you-that-way-please-show-me-some-respect/) - A snarky, criticizing tone is one of the hardest things to tolerate. When it comes from a child, it is easy to see how parents can find it disconcerting. Children and teenagers with ADHD often can’t read the social nuances of body language, facial expressions, mood, or tone of voice. This challenge often results in off-putting - [Making Friends Requires Confidence ... and that is tough for people with ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/making-friends-requires-confidence-and-that-is-tough-for-people-with-adhd/) - Social confidence does not always come easily to people with ADHD. Making new friends, reaching out to people, and trying new things requires some level of confidence. Making jokes, chatting with people, or joining a new activity all depend on feeling confident enough to try. If you’re telling a joke, you have to start with the belief that - [Managing the Story in Your Mind](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/managing-the-story-in-your-mind/) - As a sensitive person, it’s easy at times for your mind to get the best of you. You can easily fall into the trap of worrying that someone is rejecting you, avoiding you, or something worse if you have a history of social and relationship challenges. You may also tend to make assumptions about other - [Small Talk is Painful](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/small-talk-is-painful/) - Making small talk is a critical life skill and the foundation for all friendships. A conversation can increase your level of intimacy with someone. Small talk allows you to see if you have mutual interests and to get a sense of who they are and what they like. It can introduce you to a new person - [When Someone Shows You Who They Are](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/when-someone-shows-you-who-they-are/) - What makes someone worthy? How do you know if a potential friend is treating you well? What does treating you well look like? People with ADHD often ask these questions, sometimes after looking back on a friendship that went south. The truth is, many people with ADHD are not treated well by friends or acquaintances. After - [The Challenge of Keeping Friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/the-challenge-of-keeping-friends/) - It’s Not Always Your Fault When It Ends Most people who identify as having ADHD have a long, and often complicated, history with friends. We often have an equally long history of feeling misunderstood in social situations because we were “too much” for some people, leaving us feeling that we caused conflict, worried that we - [ADHD, Executive Function, and The Art of Getting Kids to Listen](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/adhd-executive-function-and-the-art-of-getting-kids-to-listen/) - Sometimes it feels like your child just is not listening to you. Are they getting a reward for being stubborn or selfish? This is a very common thought, but more often, the behaviors come from a lack of listening skills, one of several executive function skills. Research shows it can be these brain-based - [Your Parents Taught You These 8 Skills Growing Up, You're Probably Never Lonely As An Adult](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/your-parents-taught-you-these-8-skills-growing-up-youre-probably-never-lonely-as-an-adult/) - Teaching great social skills requires a rare combination of kindness, skills, and direction. We all remember what it felt like to be a teenager. For some of us, that meant loneliness and isolation. We sulked around the house because there was no one to hang out with, confide in, share their secrets, or laugh with. - [Why Some People Lose Their Cool When They're Angry — And How To Make It Stop](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-some-people-lose-their-cool-when-theyre-angry-and-how-to-make-it-stop/) - What's the difference between people who lose their cool when they're triggered and angry, and those who are able to feel their emotions and manage them? Emotional regulation. Some people seem to be naturally good at managing their emotions in a healthy way, while others may be more inclined to lash out — even when it means hurting someone - [Why People With ADHD Shut Down When Making Friends, And How To Fix It](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-people-with-adhd-shut-down-when-making-friends-and-how-to-fix-it/) - Advice from an ADHD specialist that works great for folks without ADHD, too. Almost everyone is exhausted by reading social cues, trying to pay attention to conversations, coping with sensory bombardment, and managing situations that tax your brain. When we want to make friends, there are often consequences to reaching out to new people. You might - [Why People With ADHD Are So Prone To Black-And-White Thinking](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-people-with-adhd-are-so-prone-to-black-and-white-thinking/) - Good or bad, wrong or right. Having no in-between sets challenges for social situations. Here are eight ways to shift it. “It was a total failure,” a client tells me about a situation. Now, listening to their story, what you wouldn’t get from this one statement is the situation is complex. It was full of - [Why Gifted People Have Social Emotional Challenges — 8 Strategies To Overcome Them](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-gifted-people-have-social-emotional-challenges-8-strategies-to-overcome-them/) - It's common for people with high achievement capability to experience social-emotional challenges. In fact, highly gifted and talented adults and kids may often struggle with perceptions of being different and feeling isolated, which translates into difficulties connecting with peers. Socialization comes easily to some children and adults. They know how to connect with their peers, - [When Parents Embrace Social Emotional Learning, Kids Feel The Joy Again](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/when-parents-embrace-social-emotional-learning-kids-feel-the-joy-again/) - What is social-emotional learning, and how does it help you bring the joy back in a child who's lost it? If you're a parent worrying about your child, you're not alone. Kids today are navigating more pressure than ever: financially, medically, academically, and socially. Social-emotional concerns are at an all-time high, and parents are struggling and concerned. As - [What To Do When Your Teen Is Making Friends You Don't Approve Of](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/what-to-do-when-your-teen-is-making-friends-you-dont-approve-of/) - Banning your teen's friends won't work — collaborate and discuss friendship qualities, instead. Your child's teenage friendships can be complicated. 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Caroline Maguire, ACCG, PCC, M.Ed., passionate personal coach, author, teacher, and speaker whose work has inspired important conversations about social - [How to help when kids feel left out and say they have no friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-help-when-kids-feel-left-out-and-say-they-have-no-friends/) - This article first appeared on Your Tango and has been republished wirth permission. As a parent, one of the most difficult situations you can experience is when your child expresses loneliness or even tells you, "I don't have any friends." Learning how to deal with loneliness can be a struggle for anyone, but when it's your baby who says - [How to Help Kids Learn Frienship Skills and Avoid Social Isolation with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-help-kids-learn-frienship-skills-and-avoid-social-isolation-with-caroline-maguire/) - This podcast will focus on helping kids to gain needed friendships skills so that they can make and maintain meaningful relationships now and in the future. It will also serve to identify problematic behavior that may be keeping your children from making and being accepted by friends. Caroline Maguire, author of Why Will No One - [Navigating the Holidays, Social Spying, and Sensitive Kids with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/navigating-the-holidays-social-spying-and-sensitive-kids-with-caroline-maguire/) - ABOUT THIS EPISODE Today, we’re talking to author Caroline Maguire. Caroline is the author of “Why Will No One Play With Me?”, as well as a social skills and ADHD coach. She recently did a TEDx Talk about her social spy approach to improving our interpersonal skills. Caroline talks to us about being a social spy - [My Socially Anxious Self: From a Tween to Today With Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/my-socially-anxious-self-from-a-tween-to-today-with-caroline-maguire/) - In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, discusses “My Socially Anxious Self: From a Tween to Today” Enjoy! And if you enjoyed today’s TADD Talk, you’ll want to learn more about what Caroline has to offer. Caroline Maguire, M.Ed., ACCG, PCC, earned her undergraduate degree at Trinity College and her Masters of Education and Early Childhood - [No time for passive parenting: Show your kids how to stand up to bullies](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/no-time-for-passive-parenting-show-your-kids-how-to-stand-up-to-bullies/) - t’s September and the digital grapevine is abuzz trying to figure out who’s in which classroom this year. Parents all over the country have Google docs and white boards mapping class lists to try to figure out who is in our children’s classes—hoping they haven’t been assigned to a group, team, or classroom with “those” - [Oops I Did It Again! How to Stop Saying The Wrong Thing at The Wrong Time](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/oops-i-did-it-again-how-to-stop-saying-the-wrong-thing-at-the-wrong-time/) - by Caroline Maguire, M.Ed., ACCG, PCC You made a comment and the minute it left your mouth you realized that what you said was cringy and made people uncomfortable, so now no one will look you in the eye and you wish you had a time machine and go back and fix it. As a - [How Can I Read the Room When I Get so Overwhelmed?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-can-i-read-the-room-when-i-get-so-overwhelmed/) - Sensory overload can make social and workplace events draining and anxiety-provoking. People with ADHD may struggle to read the room – to understand the emotions and thoughts of the people present, and to respond in an appropriate way. When one or more of the five senses are triggered, the brain – alerted to more stimuli than it can process – sounds - [Get organized with adult adhd](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/get-organized-with-adult-adhd/) - If you have ADHD, you know how tricky it can be to stay organized and on track. The challenge gets more intense when you’re trying to perform at work or raising a family. “Managing the details of diaper bags, sports equipment, relationships, work obligations, paying bills, oil changes, and functioning as an Uber driver to - [Get off the roller coaster now!](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/get-off-the-roller-coaster-now/) - This post was published on the now-closed HuffPost Contributor platform. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. If you need to flag this entry as abusive, send us an email. Get off the Feedback Roller Coaster Now! By Caroline Maguire, PCC, Med. Every day is an emotional roller coaster for our - [From picking playmates to choosing activities, eight ways to give kids the social skills they need](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/from-picking-playmates-to-choosing-activities-eight-ways-to-give-kids-the-social-skills-they-need/) - PARENTS worry about how their child will fit in with others but now a new book, Why Will No One Play With Me?, by social skills expert Caroline Maguire, outlines ways to improve your child’s ability to mix with others. She says: “Helping your child have the skills to play better is a key component - [Frienships & ADHD: Ghosting, Awkwardness and More with Social Skills Expert Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/frienships-adhd-ghosting-awkwardness-and-more-with-social-skills-expert-caroline-maguire/) - Ever feel like making friends is a puzzle you can't quite solve? You're not alone, mama! In this episode of Motherhood in ADHD, we unpack the nuances of friendship with our guest Caroline Maguire. Caroline is a leader in social skills development and the author of the book, “Why Will No One Play With Me?” - [Creating Likable Behaviors as an Adult With ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/creating-likable-behaviors-as-an-adult-with-adhd/) - We’ve got an excellent “TADD” Talk for you today! As part of ADHD Awareness Month and our special activities, ADDA has created TADD Talks, where we’ll be Talking about ADD every day the entire month of October! In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, M.ED, ACCG, PCC discusses “Creating Likable Behaviors as an Adult with ADHD” Enjoy! And if - [Caroline Maguire on SEL for parents and families](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/caroline-maguire-on-sel-for-parents-and-families/) - In this episode… We talk about the great new offering we’ve been putting together that will help you bring SEL (Social Emotional Learning) into your EVERY day in simple, fun, impactful ways. Our #HowToSEL coaching subscription series will be launching soon, so stay tuned! In the meantime, hear about what’s in the works from the - [Building social capital is critical for strong relationships, ADHD can get in the way](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/building-social-capital-is-critical-for-strong-relationships-adhd-can-get-in-the-way/) - A group of medical school friends nominated Sasha Hamdani to create a memory book for their pregnant classmate. Hamdani worked hard on the task for several weeks. She printed pictures, gathered mementos and listened to stories about their friend. The book — meant to be a group gift for their classmate’s baby shower — was - [Back-to-school Social Skills with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/back-to-school-social-skills-with-caroline-maguire/) - Today, we’re talking to Caroline Maguire. Caroline is the author of “Why Will No One Play With Me?”, and an expert in ADHD, Executive Function, and Social Skills. In Today’s Episode, Caroline and I talk about the social challenges of COVID19. We discuss the need for small social interactions, the importance of clear communication when planning - [Teaching Empathy To Children: 5 Tips From A Child Care Expert](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/teaching-empathy-to-children-5-tips-from-a-child-care-expert/) - The world as we know it is no longer the world as we knew it. What happened? It's been a blur, but we can all commiserate. Social distancing is making us exhausted and lonely. But who is hit the hardest? Our children. Sequestering in place has made even the most accommodating families struggle to express - [Teaching Kids Forgiveness: 5 Ways To Demonstrate The Art Of Compassion](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/teaching-kids-forgiveness-5-ways-to-demonstrate-the-art-of-compassion/) - We carefully vet all products and services featured on mindbodygreen using our commerce guidelines. Our selections are never influenced by the commissions earned from our links. Connection is akin to love. It is one of the most vital and necessary elements of human existence. In fact, our happiness is reliant on the health of our relationships and - [ADHD House Hacks That Are Executive Function Friendly (feat. Caroline Maguire's home!)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/adhd-house-hacks-that-are-executive-function-friendly-feat-caroline-maguires-home/) - Skylight Calendar can give you peace of mind and time to enjoy the things you love by organizing your busy household! Go to https://skylightcal.com/HOWTOADHD and use my code HOWTOADHD for 10% off! Thanks, Skylight for sponsoring today’s video! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtpzqp_rwVw - [ADHD and Social Skills: How to Improve Your Ability to Read Social Cues and Build Connections](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/adhd-and-social-skills-how-to-improve-your-ability-to-read-social-cues-and-build-connections/) - In this episode, Caroline Maguire, Author of “Why will no one play with me”? talks to us about how to read the room, how to really understand what's going on in social settings. Those of us with ADHD brain, that fast brain that can think of bazillion thoughts in seconds can get in trouble in - [ADHD and Friends: Blurting, Oversharing, and Small Talk with Social Skills Expert, Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/adhd-and-friends-blurting-oversharing-and-small-talk-with-social-skills-expert-caroline-maguire/) - About This Episode Tired of ADHD strategies that don’t work? Here’s what actually does. FREE training here: https://programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup ___ Here's the text formatted properly:No matter how much we learn about our ADHD, there is always somehow more to uncover. One of my personal ADHD blind spots has always been social skills; for some reason, I was convinced - [The Season Of Pool Lounge Chair Turf Wars Is Upon Us](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/the-season-of-pool-lounge-chair-turf-wars-is-upon-us/) - I’ve seen my share of turf wars over the years, but on a recent trip, I experienced it on an entirely new level: I found myself in the middle of a kerfuffle when I unknowingly sat in someone else’s pool lounge chair. The woman had tucked her bag underneath the chair in question, out of my sight. Even though I - [5 Ways To Maintain Your Child's Social Skills Right Now](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/5-ways-to-maintain-your-childs-social-skills-right-now/) - Due to COVID-19, government and medical professionals are urging us to stay physically distant and avoid social gatherings of more than 10 people. Although parents are being asked to promote physical distance outside of the family, helping children develop social skills is still possible. As busy people, we don't always make the time to connect - [Unmasking in Friendship: Making Friends as Your Authenic self as an Adult wiht ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/unmasking-in-friendship-making-friends-as-your-authenic-self-as-an-adult-wiht-adhd/) - Today’s TADD Talk features Caroline Maguire, ACCG, PCC, M.Ed., exploring “Unmasking In Friendship: Making Friends as Your Authentic Self as an Adult With ADHD.” 💡 Liked what you heard? There’s plenty more where that came from – learn more about Carolines’s work here: Caroline Maguire, ACCG, PCC, M.Ed., is an award winning author, coach, teacher, and keynote - [5 Things ADHD Adults Can Do To Connect Better](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/5-things-adhd-adults-can-do-to-connect-better/) - We’ve got an excellent “TADD” Talk for you today! As part of ADHD Awareness Month and our special activities, ADDA has created TADD Talks, where we’ll be Talking about ADD every day the entire month of October! In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, discusses “5 Things ADHD Adults Can Do to Connect Better” Enjoy! And if you enjoyed - [Why Will No One Play With Me? with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-will-no-one-play-with-me-with-caroline-maguire/) - Another lovely conversation that was had before we experienced a global pandemic. The topic of social-emotional intelligence and social skills challenges is even more important today. Have a listen and let me know your thoughts or questions. Once you’ve listened, share your takeaways or ask questions in your dedicated FB podcast group. What We Talked About - [4 Little Words to Solve Any Social Dilemma: Who is my Audience?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/4-little-words-to-solve-any-social-dilemma-who-is-my-audience/) - We’ve got an excellent “TADD” Talk for you today! As part of ADHD Awareness Month and our special activities, ADDA has created TADD Talks, where we’ll be Talking about ADD every day the entire month of October! In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire discusses “4 Little Words To Solve Any Social Dilemma: Who Is My Audience?” Enjoy! And - [Why Will No One Play With Me? Teaching Parents To Become Their Child's Social Skill Coach](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-will-no-one-play-with-me-teaching-parents-to-become-their-childs-social-skill-coach/) - We’ve got an excellent “TADD” Talk for you today! As part of ADHD Awareness Month and our special activities, ADDA has created TADD Talks, where we’ll be Talking about ADD every day the entire month of October! In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, discusses “Why Will No One Play With Me? Teaching Parents to Become Their Child’s Social - [Why Will No One Play With Me?](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-will-no-one-play-with-me/) - Discover insights on why no one will play with your child and explore effective strategies for building social skills in children Does your child have big emotional blow-ups in social situations? Are they a wallflower who doesn’t know how to make friends? Do they struggle to understand when it’s appropriate to interrupt, tell the truth, - [Why Teaching Your Child Empathy Builds Their Social Skill](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-teaching-your-child-empathy-builds-their-social-skill/) - Empathy, or the ability to put yourself in another person’s shoes and express genuine concern and/or interest about their feelings or life circumstance, is a key factor behind general human decency. So says Edward (Ned) Hallowell, M.D., a board-certified child, adult psychiatrist and thought leader who founded The Hallowell Centers in Boston MetroWest, New York City, San Francisco, - [390: Coach Caroline answers the question: 'Why will no one play with me?'](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/390-coach-caroline-answers-the-question-why-will-no-one-play-with-me/) - ADHD Coach Caroline Maguire is back! She’s a coach, author, teacher, and speaker with a special focus in social skills supporting kids — and parents of kids — with ADHD. She’s just about to celebrate the release of her new book, Why Will No One Play with Me?: The Play Better Plan to Help Children of - [368: reading between the lines with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/368-reading-between-the-lines-with-caroline-maguire/) - Do social situations exhaust you? Do you feel like your brain is working in overdrive to keep up with your environment? According to our guest this week, that’s a common refrain for those living with ADHD. Caroline Maguire is a coach, author, teacher, and speaker with a special focus in social skills supporting kids and - [10 helpful phrases to say when your child struggles in social situations](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/10-helpful-phrases-to-say-when-your-child-struggles-in-social-situations/) - This story was originally published on October 1, 2019. It has been updated. Talking about social challenges is never easy. For most mamas, the dread of how to begin keeps us from having the conversation at all. Research shows that playing and interacting with others builds executive function skills, content knowledge, and creative thinking—all important skills that - [“Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Adults” with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/friendship-skills-for-neurodivergent-adults-with-caroline-maguire/) - If you’ve ever given everything to a friendship and been left wondering what went wrong, Caroline Maguire has a gentle but clarifying answer: you probably gave too much, too soon, to someone who hadn’t yet earned it. That’s not a character flaw — it’s the ADHD brain doing what it does when it finally finds - [Why Is Making Friends So Hard with ADHD? Social Skills & Communication Tips with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-is-making-friends-so-hard-with-adhd-social-skills-communication-tips-with-caroline-maguire/) - In this episode, we’re discussing important topics—social skills, friendships, and navigating communication as someone with ADHD. I’m joined by the amazing Caroline Maguire, an author, coach, TED Talk speaker, and founder of a revolutionary social emotional learning (SEL) method that helps neurodivergent individuals connect more authentically. Caroline’s insight is deeply rooted in both her personal - [Why Does No One Like Me? Learn How To Read the Room to Create a More Positive Social Approach](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/why-does-no-one-like-me-learn-how-to-read-the-room-to-create-a-more-positive-social-approach/) - We’ve got an excellent “TADD” Talk for you today! As part of ADHD Awareness Month and our special activities, ADDA has created TADD Talks, where we’ll be Talking about ADD every day the entire month of October! In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, Med, PCC discusses “Why Does No One Like Me? Learn how to Read the Room - [When your tween acts up on lockdown](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/when-your-tween-acts-up-on-lockdown/) - It’s hard to take away screen time right now. They already can’t see their friends. Here are ways to empathize but also call for respect. My stuck-at-home 11-year-old spends her off-school hours on the online game platform Roblox. As screen time goes, it’s a pretty safe, kid-friendly and creative option, since with parental controls I’m - [Choose Love Book Club - "Why Will No One Play With Me?" with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/choose-love-book-club-why-will-no-one-play-with-me-with-caroline-maguire/) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKhE89mw2_M - [How to Get Along with Everyone](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-get-along-with-everyone/) - Social struggles are common when someone has ADHD, regardless of their age. Friendly chit-chat and banter do not come naturally for many people who have ADHD. Forcing conversations with coworkers, school peers, neighbors, and community members can leave them feeling awkward, rejected, and exhausted. What’s at the heart of this? Caroline Maguire introduces the deep-seated - [How to deal with Rejection Sensitivity](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-deal-with-rejection-sensitivity/) - This is my most requested episode ever. Thanks to the support of my research team, creative team, professional consultants, and the fabulous Caroline Maguire, it's finally done :) Enjoy!!! https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jM3azhiOy5E&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com&source_ve_path=NzY3NTg - [How to Help Students with ADHD Gain Social Confidence (with Caroline Maguire)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/how-to-help-students-with-adhd-gain-social-confidence-with-caroline-maguire/) - Lack of practice, lagging maturity, fewer social models, and weak executive functions mean that children with ADHD often struggle with social skills. The good news is that, like any other skill, these skills can be taught and improved. Learn how to help students with ADHD adjust to in-person school in this hour-long webinar with Caroline - [Helping Kids with Social Skills and Friendships: An Interview with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/helping-kids-with-social-skills-and-friendships-an-interview-with-caroline-maguire/) - Have you noticed social skills missing in your kids? Caroline Maguire, author of Why Will No One Play With Me?, joins me to discuss how to support your child and build them up through play. Here’s some of the areas we cover: The importance of play How to play with your kids in a role - [Getting REAL About the Struggle To Make Friends When You Have ADHD](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/getting-real-about-the-struggle-to-make-friends-when-you-have-adhd/) - Hello, Brains! It's often difficult for a lot of us to make and maintain friends, so I wanted to open up about my experiences with friendships... and get Caroline's take on it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7SFuoNe2DI - [Friendship Skills For Neurodivergent Adults Featuring Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/friendship-skills-for-neurodivergent-adults-featuring-caroline-maguire/) - Send us a text In this episode of the Men's ADHD Support Group webinar series, join Shane Thrapp and our amazing guest as we discuss the challenge of making friends as adults with ADHD. Featuring Caroline Maguire, author and friendship expert, the discussion covers why forming meaningful relationships can be difficult and provides practical, easy-to-use - [Friendship, Confidence & ADHD: Expert Strategies with Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/friendship-confidence-adhd-expert-strategies-with-caroline-maguire/) - Welcome to 16th episode of The Way Forward – A Kindness Mission, presented by Anthony’s Way – The Road to Kindness. In this episode, we’re joined by Caroline Maguire, leading ADHD coach, speaker, and author of the acclaimed book Why Will No One Play with Me?Caroline brings years of expertise in helping children with ADHD build social skills, - [FOX Dallas- Fort Worth](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/fox-dallas-fort-worth/) - Whether your preschooler is shy, your elementary student doesn't have play dates, or your middle schooler feels left out... there are ways to turn it around. Personal coach, author, and teacher Caroline Maguire speaks with Steve Noviello. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7_3hHuw6tss&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com&source_ve_path=NzY3NTg - [Foster Friendships in Adulthood by Embracing Your ADHD (with Caroline Maguire, M.Ed.)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/foster-friendships-in-adulthood-by-embracing-your-adhd-with-caroline-maguire-m-ed/) - This clip is from Caroline Maguire, M.Ed.'s, ADDitude webinar: "An Adult’s Guide to Fostering Friendships with ADHD" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NhNuegUuN00 - [Making Meaningful Connections with Social Spy Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/making-meaningful-connections-with-social-spy-caroline-maguire/) - Caroline Maguire is the author of the award-winning book Why Will No One Play with Me? and the brilliant mind behind the TEDx talk "Becoming a Social Spy: How to Read People Using Observational Learning." In this episode René and Caroline sit down to discuss the ins and outs of building confidence and developing the skills to - [Five Words that Will Change Your Child’s Life—and Your Parenting—Forever](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/five-words-that-will-change-your-childs-life-and-your-parenting-forever/) - This post was published on the now-closed HuffPost Contributor platform. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. If you need to flag this entry as abusive, send us an email. A client from long ago tells me that one of the most life-changing things I shared with her as I coached her - [Effects of Socialization Issues on our Children](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/effects-of-socialization-issues-on-our-children/) - On today's episode, we had an interesting and informative conversation with Caroline Maguire (ADHD Coach and award-winning author of the book "Why will no one play with me") on "The social effect of ADHD on our children and its solutions". About the show: "LollieTasking with ADHD" is a podcast where Dr. Lola, a physician, and - [Neurodivergent Friendships & Social Struggles](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/neurodivergent-friendships-social-struggles/) - 2026-01-24 Likes Download Share In this episode, Patrick Casale talks with Caroline Maguire, ACCG, PCC, M.Ed. Caroline is an award-winning author and coach whose work inspires crucial conversations around social skills, friendship, and belonging—especially for neurodivergent adults. Patrick and Caroline discuss everything from unmasking and authentic connection to the real-life struggles and victories of forming - [Coaching Your Child on Social Skills with Carolne Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/coaching-your-child-on-social-skills-with-carolne-maguire/) - We all know social skills are important. I mean...lets be honest, even many ADHD adults struggle to navigate the social world. So I invited Caroline Maguire to talk with me about coaching neurodivergent children on social skills.We drop a lot of great examples in this episode, as well as some very useful techniques for coaching - [New Mobile And Web App Helps People With Attention Deficit Disorder Manage Daily Habits, Routines And Connect With Their ADHD Coaches](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/new-mobile-and-web-app-helps-people-with-attention-deficit-disorder-manage-daily-habits-routines-and-connect-with-their-adhd-coaches/) - Phoenix AZ, April 30, 2015 – According to industry research, 5% of adults in the US today have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), a brain-based medical disorder that causes significant problems with work, school and family life. To directly address the challenges people with ADHD face in daily living, the Attention Deficit Disorder Association, the world’s leading - [Cataloging wins and Practice Positive Self-talk (with Caroline Maguire, M.Ed., ACCG, PCC)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/cataloging-wins-and-practice-positive-self-talk-with-caroline-maguire-m-ed-accg-pcc/) - Register below for a webinar on DBT for adults with ADHD on Thursday, October 31, at 1pm ET. Sign up and receive the free webinar replay link as well! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hwDHDyhGQmQ - [Caroline Maguire Helps Us Make Friends](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/caroline-maguire-helps-us-make-friends/) - Friendship. It’s a word that evokes warmth, nostalgia, and—if we’re honest—a twinge of confusion. Because once upon a time, it was effortless. A shared lunch, a game of tag, and suddenly, a best friend was born. But then, something happened. Adulthood. And with it came the slow realization that making and keeping friends isn’t just - [Caroline Maguire "Why will no one play with me?"](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/caroline-maguire-why-will-no-one-play-with-me/) - There's nothing worse than having your child in pain and not knowing what to do about it. Caroline Maguire, a personal coach who works with children struggling with executive function weakness, can help, at least with all the social ills that plague almost every child at one time or another! The author of Why Will No - [Oversharing & Underinvesting: The Social Traps That Snare ADHD Adults (with Caroline Maguire, M.Ed.)](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/oversharing-underinvesting-the-social-traps-that-snare-adhd-adults-with-caroline-maguire-m-ed/) - In this hour-long webinar with ADDitude, Caroline Maguire talks about the social traps and friendship foibles that impact adults with ADHD, whose inattention, impulsivity, or emotional dysregulation may strain connections with others https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIBk2j0idWQ - [Caroline Maguire](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/caroline-maguire/) - How can you tell if your child needs social skills coaching? If your child struggles to make new friends or is persistently left out, this video explains how and when to work collaboratively around friendships. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-rTvHgE9_Ys&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fcarolinemaguireauthor.com&source_ve_path=NzY3NTg - [Building Friendships and Social Skills with Carolne Magire, PCC, M. Ed.](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/building-friendships-and-social-skills-with-carolne-magire-pcc-m-ed/) - Friendships are such a wonderful and special part of life. From memory making to going through the highs and lows with your peers makes life so much richer. As a child, learning social skills and how friendships fit is a huge learning curve as they go through their childhood and find their ‘people’. As a - [Show Your Kids Healthy Communication](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/show-your-kids-healthy-communication/) - Communicating: How the holidays are a great opportunity to show your kids healthy communication skills. 0:19 Meet Caroline Maguire. She is an author and total communication badass. She talks about showing our children proper communication during this holiday season. Don’t wait to show your kiddos healthy communication skills. Have you thought about how you communicate? - [ADHD, Lagging Executive Function Skills And The Social Hangover - steps to Ensure You Don't Feel Lonely or Isolated](https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/medias/adhd-lagging-executive-function-skills-and-the-social-hangover-steps-to-ensure-you-dont-feel-lonely-or-isolated/) - In today’s TADD talk, Caroline Maguire, discusses, “ADHD, Lagging Executive Function Skills and the Social Hangover – Steps to Ensure You Don’t Feel Lonely or Isolated“ Enjoy! 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